reflections on some aspects of life =.=''

i believe, what my friend told me was true.. that someone has got to know their own strength and weaknesses. to be confident is one good thing. but being overconfident is everyone's downfall. that can be proven way back to the past kings and sultans or whatever. but i think napolean bonaparte has proven that statement enough. being too confident of yourself is really a disease to avoid. not only it make you fall, it makes you look like a fool at the end of day. i've been over confident of my self before, i don deny it. but i've learnt through it.

that statement said, i think it is a very sad thing that most people do not heed people's advice and think that their always right. i think i've been like that once before also. i'd like to think i've changed. but i feel there are some times that i dont heed other's advice as well. but that is to an extend of not hurting myself. some people are just plain stubborn and not listening to reason. isn't that just sad? i mean, life is an every learning process. why is it so hard to just try out what people suggests/advices and find out if it's really as good a choice as they sae it is?

but enough said about that. had a major surprise last nite!! lolz. a friend said he was going to play some DotA.. so, patiently waited to discuss some things in msn later... waited n waited, but there was no response!! (actually, another friend of his was bluffing me all the way. =.= piangz... si gui. make me wait whole nite) and then... worried that he might have met with some misfortunes, i smsed him. NO REPLY!!

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the next thing i knew, he called up, saying there's someone at the the door. and i opened up my apartment's main door.. and... lolz it was him. he drove back from KL that nite but didnt inform me!! majorly to give me a surprise. nothing much. but i was. really surprised. that made up for the boring and sick weekend i had. thanks for making it a memorable day/nite/midnite/whatever u wanna sae it to be. ^.^ really glad to see you there. a big surprise it was.